Couples Therapy for Infidelity & Broken Trust
So you can figure out if your relationship can be repaired, and rebuild it in a way that actually feels secure again.
You don’t know what’s true anymore. You’re questioning everything, and you don’t know if this relationship can actually be fixed.
This is where you slow things down, understand what happened, and decide what to do next with the relationship.
If You’re Here, Something Has Shifted
You’re not imagining it. Something in your relationship feels different, and you can’t ignore it.
You don’t trust what you’re being told
You keep replaying conversations trying to make sense of it
You’re checking phones, emails, or looking for proof
You don’t know if you’re overreacting or missing something
Every conversation somehow circles back to the betrayal
You’re stuck between trying to fix it and wondering if you should leave
And for many couples, intimacy has changed too. Physically, emotionally, or both, and no one knows how to talk about it without things getting worse.
You’re exhausted. And nothing you’ve tried has made it better.
Why This Isn’t Getting Better
Most couples try to talk their way through this.
That’s usually where things get worse. More arguments, more blame, more distance.
This isn’t just a communication issue. Trust has been broken.
And when trust is broken, it impacts everything. How you talk, how you connect, and often how you experience emotional and physical intimacy with each other.
Without a clear process, you stay stuck in the same conversations, the same pain, and the same uncertainty.
What I Help Couples Do
I help couples figure out if their relationship can be repaired, and how to rebuild it emotionally and physically.
Why Couples Choose To Work With Me
I’ve spent the last 10+ years working with couples navigating trust issues, infidelity, and high conflict dynamics.
This isn’t new territory, and it’s not something I approach casually.
Trained in the Gottman Method for structured relationship repair
EMDR trained to help process the trauma that comes with betrayal
Background in sex therapy to support rebuilding intimacy, not just communication
Direct, balanced approach. Both partners are held accountable without blame or bias
Inclusive, nonjudgmental support for BIPOC, LGBTQIA+ and ENM couples.
Where You Are Right Now.
Something Feels Off
You don’t have all the answers, but you can’t ignore what you’re seeing.
You’re questioning everything and trying to figure out what’s real.
It’s Out In The Open
Now you know. And everything feels unstable.
Conversations escalate quickly, emotions swing, and even moments of connection or intimacy can feel confusing or emotionally charged.
Stay Or Leave
You’re stuck.
You don’t want to make the wrong decision.
But staying in limbo is just as painful.
How We Approach This
We don’t guess, avoid, or rush decisions. We work through this in a structured way so you know what you’re dealing with.
First, we understand what actually happened and what’s still unclear.
Next we determine whether trust can realistically be rebuilt.
Then we improve communication and address the impact on emotional and physical intimacy.
Lastly we decide what direction makes sense for your relationship.
So you’re not stuck guessing anymore.
What Changes When This Works
BEFORE
Checking, questioning, spiraling
Conversations turn into arguments
Unsure what’s true and what isn’t
Waiting for the next problem
Afraid to say the wrong thing
Emotional and physical distance
Stuck in indecision
AFTER
Calm, grounded, able to trust what you’re seeing
Steady conversations that move things forward
Clear on what happened and what’s real
Trust that feels consistent, not fragile
Able to be honest without everything escalating
Connection and intimacy that feels natural, not forced
Making clear, grounded decisions about your relationship
You’re no longer stuck trying to figure this out on your own.
You understand where you stand, what’s possible, and what you’re choosing moving forward.
What Makes This Different
Both partners are held accountable, this is not one sided.
You won’t be blamed, shamed, or ganged up on.
I will be direct when patterns are harmful and guide you toward better ones.
We don’t stay stuck talking about the same pain, we work toward repair.
We address both emotional and physical intimacy, not just communication.
You can talk openly about sex, desire, and intimacy without judgment or avoidance.
“Jazmyne has an incredible ability to cut through the fog and help you understand what’s actually happening. We felt safe opening up right away, and over time gained the tools and confidence to handle issues on our own.”
— Couples Client
“She helped us put words to what we couldn’t name and guided us toward what was actually right for our relationship. It was hard to talk about, but without her support things could have been much worse.”
— Couples Client
This May Not Be The Right Fit If..
There is ongoing cheating or contact with a third party
There is active addiction or abuse
One partner is not willing to take responsibility for their role
You’re looking for someone to “fix” your partner
You’re not willing to make changes outside of sessions
What To Expect
Virtual sessions from the comfort of your home
Weekly sessions (this work requires consistency)
Both partners encouraged to attend the consult
Flexible scheduling within weekday hours
If you’re trying to figure out whether this relationship can be repaired, this is where we start
COUPLES THERAPY FAQs
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You’re welcome to come on your own or with your partner.
If both of you can attend, it often helps create faster progress, but it’s not required to get started.
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If it feels like a good fit, you’ll be guided through the next steps and how to begin.
Sometimes that’s weekly therapy and other times a more accelerated approach is recommended.
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That’s a common place to be.
The process is designed to help you understand what each path would actually require so you can decide.
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This is a private pay practice.
Documentation (superbills) can be provided for possible out-of-network reimbursement, depending on your plan.
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Some couples benefit from meeting more frequently for a short period of time to create real momentum and break through stuck patterns.
If that’s appropriate, it will be discussed and tailored to your situation.
Still Have Questions?
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*If you’re ready to get started, the best next step is to book a consult above.
