Affair Recovery Intensive
For Couples Dealing With Infidelity and the Aftermath of Broken Trust
The Affair Has Been Discovered
Now you need to decide what happens next.
Conversations blow up or shut down
The same questions come up again and again
One of you wants answers. The other doesn’t know how to respond
You’re trying to decide if the relationship can continue
This is a break in trust.
And it doesn’t settle on its own.
If you want a clear explanation of how this works and what to expect, watch this:
Core Problem
Most couples get stuck in two loops:
You talk, but nothing gets resolved.
The same topics come up repeatedly.
Each conversation creates more and more tension.
Time passes but nothing changes.
Days and weeks go by.
You’re still in the same place you started (or further away from each other).
The result:
You stay in reaction mode with no clear next step.
Two Paths
There are two ways to handle things at this stage.
WEEKLY THERAPY
One hour at a time
Spread out over months
Slow for an active crisis
INTENSIVE
1 - 2 full days
Focused and structured
Built for fast movement
This is not a slow problem.
It’s a relationship injury that needs to be handled quickly and directly.
You need:
Structure
Control
Clear Guidance
The intensive is built for this stage.
Not to manage things over time, but to get it under control and move things forward.
How The Process Works
01 / CONSULTATION
A brief conversation to understand what happened and if an intensive fits your situation.
02 / RELATIONSHIP EVALUATION
A 90 minute evaluation where we examine the affair and the relationship dynamics surrounding it.
03 / RELATIONSHIP INTENSIVE
Focused time to examine the relationship more deeply and work through the impacts of the affair.
Investment
Couples intensives are a focused, accelerated and private format.
Most work falls in the range of:
$2,000 - $5,000
The exact structure and cost are determined after the consultation and evaluation.
This ensures the approach matches the situation, rather than forcing a preset package.
Who This Is For
This is for couples who:
Have confirmed an affair
Are in the immediate aftermath
Need to decide what to do next
Are willing to face this directly
This is not for couples who:
Have not confirmed the affair
Avoid talking about what happened
Want open ended weekly therapy
Experiencing active addiction, violence or crisis.
If betrayal has disrupted your relationship, and you want clarity about what comes next, the first step is a consultation.
FAQs
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The sooner the better.
Right now, everything is reactive.
Conversations start fast and break down just as quickly.This process creates a contained space to slow things down, so you’re not making decisions in the middle of the impact.
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That’s often where couples start.
Think of this less as “working on the relationship” and more as stepping out of the noise long enough to see clearly.
The goal is not to push you in a direction, it’s to help you understand what each path actually involves so you can decide.
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That’s common.
After an affair, one partner is often pushing for answers, while the other feels overwhelmed or unsure how to respond.
Part of the work is stabilizing that imbalance so the conversation can actually move somewhere, rather than staying stuck in reaction.
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No. This isn’t about doing more talking.
It’s about staying with the right conversations long enough to actually get through them.
In a weekly format, it’s easy to reopen the same wound over and over.
Here, we’re able to stay with it until something shifts.
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I draw from approaches like EMDR, Gottman Method work, and other structured models. They’re integrated based on what’s happening in the moment.
The work is adapted in real time so we can address both the emotional impact and the relational patterns underneath it.