Sexless Marriage Intensive
For Couples Struggling With Intimacy and Disconnection
The Relationship Has Lost All Spark
You’re now in a sexless marriage (or close to it) and nothing is changing.
Intimacy is rare or gone
Talking about it leads to tension or avoidance
One of you pushes. The other pulls away
It’s no longer occasional
This is now the pattern.
If you want a clear explanation of how this works and what to expect, watch this:
The Core Problem
Most couples stay stuck here:
The talk around the issue.
They focus on frequency or frustration.
They don’t address what’s driving it.
They get used to it.
The longer it goes on, the harder it is to change.
The result:
More distance
Less connection
No clear shift
Two Paths
Weekly Therapy
Slow, spread out
Often indirect
Intensive
Focused time
Direct and structured
At this stage, this is no longer a small issue.
It needs to be addressed quickly and directly.
You need:
Clear conversation
Structure
Guidance
The intensive is built to get to the root, not circle around the issue.
How The Process Works
01 / CONSULTATION
A brief conversation to understand your situation, how you got there and if an intensive is a good fit.
02 / RELATIONSHIP EVALUATION
A 90 minute evaluation where we examine intimacy and connection and all of the relationship dynamics surrounding it.
03 / RELATIONSHIP INTENSIVE
Focused time to work through the relationship more deeply, the loss of intimacy, the patterns you’re in and see what restoring connection would require.
*My work draws from several approaches including EMDR, Gottman research, and sex therapy training when relevant to the relationship dynamics involved.
Who This Is For
This is for couples who:
Are in a sexless or near sexless pattern
Have tried to fix it without success
Want a direct approach
This is not for couples who:
Are in a short term dip
Avoid the issue
Want ongoing, open ended therapy
Are experiencing active addiction, violence or crisis
Investment
Couples intensives are a focused, accelerated and private format.
Most work falls in the range of:
$2,000 - $5,000
The exact structure and cost are determined after the consultation and evaluation.
This ensures the approach matches the situation, rather than forcing a preset package.
The Next Step is a Consultation.
FAQs
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There’s no exact number.
If intimacy has become strained and talking about it isn’t changing anything, that’s enough.
At that point, it’s not just about sex.
It’s about the pattern the relationship has settled into. -
Yes.
This is sex therapy, along with other approaches, delivered in a focused intensive format.
That allows us to work through both the surface issue and what’s underneath it, without stopping and restarting each week.
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Most couples have.
The difference here is the format. Intensives are focused, uninterrupted sessions instead of starting and stopping each week.
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It’s rarely just one thing.
Sometimes it’s pressure and avoidance.
Sometimes it’s resentment, disconnection, or past experiences that haven’t been addressed.Part of the work is identifying what’s actually driving the pattern so you’re not just trying to “fix” the surface.
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That’s usually already happening.
The difference here is that the process is structured so the conversation doesn’t spiral or shut down.
Instead of avoiding it (or pushing too hard) we work through it in a way that stays contained and productive.
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I integrate sex therapy, EMDR, and Gottman couples work depending on what’s needed.
Some parts focus on communication and patterns.
Others focus more directly on emotional or physical disconnection.The approach adjusts to the situation, rather than applying one method to everything.
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In some cases, yes. In others, no.
What changes is that you understand what’s possible, and what it would take to get there.
Instead of guessing or going in circles, you’re working with something clear.