Couples Therapy for Affairs, High Conflict, and Emotional Disconnect

For partners who still want to fight for it, even when it feels like there’s nothing left.

 You’ve been through the unthinkable. Infidelity, secrets, blowout fights, or months of silence. Maybe you’ve tried couples counseling before. Maybe you were told you were too intense, too complicated, or “not a good fit.”

That ends here.

I work with couples other therapists feel unequipped to handle. Those in crisis, in survival mode, or standing on the edge.

Whether you're navigating affair recovery or stuck in a loop of conflict and emotional shutdown, we’ll work with urgency and direction.

There’s no one size fits all model. Just real, skilled intervention for couples who want a shot at something honest, steady, and worth staying for.

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What Working Together Looks Like

Couples don’t come to me because things are mildly off. They come because trust has fractured, the fights are relentless, or the silence has swallowed everything that used to feel good.

We get under the patterns fast. How the pain started, how it’s playing out now, and what it’ll take to repair. Whether you’re navigating infidelity, chronic conflict, or emotional disconnection, I help you identify what’s fueling the breakdown and how to stop bleeding out emotionally just to survive the day.

I use evidence based approaches like the Gottman Method, EMDR, and sex therapy techniques to help you rebuild relational safety, strengthen communication, and reconnect physically and emotionally.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Interrupt explosive and intense patterns that escalate fast

  • Speak and hear each other without spinning out

  • Rebuild trust after betrayal, step by step

  • Repair emotional and sexual intimacy

  • Make decisions about staying or leaving from a grounded place, not fear or pressure

You don’t have to be perfectly regulated to be here. You just have to be ready to work.

Let’s Talk About What Repair Could Look Like for You
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Therapy That Meets the Moment

Some couples need time to rebuild trust over weeks. Others are in crisis and need a relationship reset now. I offer two ways to work together, depending on what your relationship needs most.

WEEKLY COUPLES THERAPY

Structured, 50 minute sessions designed for steady progress. Ideal for partners rebuilding trust, communication, and emotional connection over time.

THERAPY INTENSIVES FOR AFFAIR RECOVERY

Half day, full day, or two day deep dive sessions. Built for couples facing infidelity, conflict that feels too big for a 50 minute container, or emotional shutdowns where weekly therapy just isn’t cutting it. This is focused, accelerated work with momentum

Find the Format That Fits Your Relationship

HOURLY RATES

 50-Minute Weekly Couples Therapy - $250 per session
Sessions are billed individually. HSA/FSA cards accepted.

Looking for faster progress?
Consider Therapy Intensives, designed for couples who need deep, focused work and don’t want to spend months revisiting the same issues.

FAQs

  • That’s more common than you think. Many therapists aren’t equipped to handle infidelity, high conflict couples, or relationship trauma. My approach is structured, direct, and grounded in methods designed for relational injury. We won’t just talk, we’ll work.

  • Yes. I specialize in couples other providers have called “too intense” or “too far gone.” If you’re both still showing up, there’s still work worth doing. We’ll build structure to interrupt the chaos, and space to actually hear each other again.

  • It’s possible, but not without effort, honesty, and a clear process for repair. I guide couples through the stages of affair recovery so any decision (whether to stay or leave) is made from clarity not crisis.

  • That’s okay. Therapy isn’t just for couples who’ve decided to stay. It’s for partners who need to pause, speak honestly, and understand what’s broken before making the next move.

  • Yes. I work with many clients in ethically non-monogamous and non-traditional relationships. If you’re navigating betrayal, conflict, or boundary ruptures within those dynamics, this is a space where your relationship model is respected.

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If You’re Both Still Here, There’s Still Something Worth Fighting For

 Even if you’re barely speaking. Even if the trust is gone. Even if you’ve heard “this relationship is too much” more than once.
I work with couples who others have given up on. Let’s see what’s still possible together.

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